I got married and gave birth to a child and then took the other .. Then my husband got a traffic accident and died a year ago, I have two children, and now I am 22 years .. And the duration of my marriage was relatively short did not sit with my husband very much, because the nature of his work was a permanent travel .. My husband those with money and prestige of the position and has asked me to stay with my children and never get married, but have enough time to educate me and put a luxury house and a maid and a driver and provided me all the entertainment and Ospegoa the money so as not to get married.
The joy of my family to this; because the level of the material is very normal, this situation could have much; for this they do not want to marry me to stay with my clients .. I am a beautiful girl and I study at home, but in the confused and my personal opinion, I tend to marriage especially as it comes
Much to propose marriage to me Vids Is my desire to live or feelings of motherhood and my family the most useful and ground my husband ..
A: The scholars said: Marriage is the duty of the able and longs for it to himself and feared sedition itself, Muslim, whether male or female must be chaste himself from the Sacred and fortify the hardship is not only to marriage. Those who wish to marry and the same tended to him and he was able to it but safe from the commission of what Allah has forbidden it, marriage is recommended to him, because the Prophet peace be upon him and urged him to marry from his Sunan. It is thus clear, that you do you see yourself is you are afraid of sedition on yourself and are afraid that Tertkpa Sacred if refrained from marriage because of the severity of milk to him in this case you should marry to ward off temptation for yourself and resolve the cursed albeit in your marriage you lose the new house and live well-off and waste for the benefit of the material derived from your family stay without a husband, because religion provides to everything else ..But in the event that the tastes (sexual and psychological) of the marriage is not Bcdidh and you can secure yourself from hardship and falling on the campus of God, then you can leave the marriage and Tekfa to raise your children and Tzla in the care of your husband's family at the same time benefit your family financially on your way, and in this case should be do a lot of fasting and worship for the guidance of the Prophet peace be upon him to so as to increase abstinence and Allah knows best.
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