Marriage is the process of building and the formation and progress continuum encountered obstacles must be the subject of insight and reflection, a process sometimes requires some sacrifices, but it always requires the effort in order to move forward, but if deviated marriage and take the cracks for some reason, then it becomes the outside world and the men and women the source of temptation and affliction, and in this case taken to fulfill a new form becomes obligatory moral, but the burden of moral may be difficult to afford, and when you take a meeting in the sense of a husband or wife due form it indicates that there is a threat to marriage from the inside and the crack has occurred in the construction of marital Setsll than the external enemy to eliminate this construction, because the transfer of married life to a series of acts by the monotonous sequence in an atmosphere of surrender
And satisfaction, the negative, in such an atmosphere of drought emotional loses love its value as a factor strengthening the self and the integration of personal and suffice to each pair to do what he believes to be, no doubt in that duty done in an atmosphere of lack of interest and indifference do not soon be converted due to something boring.
One of the reasons that disturb the marital life and increase the tension between the lack of understanding of the nature of the other couples and separation of the two components Akunan Love: Al_husmy element and the emotional and psychological component. It is the duty of the husband should realize that women are estimated to the extent evidence of love and compassion and they need to feel that they are highly appreciated and admired, and it is not just a way to satisfy the wishes of her husband, on the other hand should the wife be aware that the demands of human nature in the marriage is not limited to love and compassion but of the desires in the physical and the need to satisfy this need to be aware that the lack of fidelity to Aerga temptations to which one may encounter in the outside, but to ignore the demands of marital physical and not please her husband, both in terms of the wife or vice versa.
The chase is always ripe to paradise paradise lost and if a person is often mistaken choice of means and lost the road to prosperity and happiness to it that he can not silence this voice that emerges from the depths of himself, calling him to achieve all the potential of the right and good and beauty.
This is the prayer, which still hear his voice, that high or dimmed during the stages of a perfect love when they grow in the faces of natural and in the soil of natural any in the atmosphere of married life and soil to grow to the stage of full maturity, which up married life to be calm and stability has reminded us of some
Of crises that threaten the stability and lead to cracking of life, including marital boredom and emotional drought and lack of understanding of both sides of the last
It remains to mention the studies of psychiatrists in cases of divorce, which showed clearly that the divorce suited to never be a cure for such crises, but successful treatment is to understand who wants to divorce motives unconscious, which makes him think of such a solution it must cure himself of the decade working in the depths of the same It would be useful - the more threatened a couple other abandonment and divorce - to consult each of the spouses psychoanalyst and request the appropriate treatment for their condition, it is like psychotherapy to increase the processor insight and knowledge of himself and that he can of the estimate is a realistic assessment, would this knowledge and appreciation of the right to make one realizes that crises and problems inherent to human nature and are essential for the advancement of rights and their rise in perfect peace and that some violent crises that are shaking the building marital life is not a solution but to sacrifice.
So we had to emphasize the importance of the science relating to married life, whether in terms of psychological or sexual because it is not easy for everyone in the community that goes to the psychiatrist, and the awareness of the sound these things make the individual handles crises with and if persistence of this awareness the principle of basic principles, it is enough to teach ethical principles from abroad in the image of the training depends on the pressure and intimidation, but not enough to convince the mind HH ethical principles without principles become an integral part of the personal and the primary motivation deep appoint behavior and directing.
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