- That Islam did not neglect this aspect of life, which may be calculated by some people is far from religion and his interests, even some people imagine that he viewed the "sex" and related that "an abomination of Satan" and that the Islamic view of sex Knzerh monastic him.
- And the fact that Islam has me in this aspect of the innate human life, and the development of the rules and regulations and guidelines that ensure the performance of his duties, the hyperbole is not suppression or deviation.
- Being as stated in Sura on this subject in the verse:
(They ask you about menstruation is less harm Vaatzloa
Women in the menstrual Tqrboehn not even a bath if Ttehrn Votohn as God has commanded you that God loves those who repent and loves those who purify themselves. Your wives are a tillage for you, so I am tilth when or how you want and offer for yourselves and fear Allah and know that you Mlaqoh and faithful human beings). (Al-Baqarah: 222 223).
- Was full of books of Tafseer, Hadith and jurisprudence, literature and the other with plenty of things related to this aspect, and did not see the Muslim scholars of any good to talk about this subject as long as in the context of science and education, was common among Muslims all this to say: no shyness in religion, in learning and teaching , whatever the theme ..
- And Islam has come for all races, all classes, and all environments, and for all times and all circumstances, should not be controlled by his understanding and his fatwas and directing its provisions tastes or traditions some people appointed, in a certain environment, an environment Muslims, Arabs or Eastern, Venhger so what could God, Nbeef What is pleased to religion, which prevent people did not stop them from Islam, stands, constants umpires ..
- And here I ask the brothers jealous, who are quick to Ifta prevention and prohibition as they never had, or Tschnah themselves by virtue of upbringing and education of, to detect and verify reports before assertion to the sentence, especially when positive or forbidden, and not take the provisions of the books of preaching and chips, nor the tongues of the people preaching and persuasion and intimidation, often lacked the investigation and audit, and rarely gave up the hype and exaggerations only from the womb of your Lord ..
- And should not be at different scientists to adhere to the doctrine, taking the most safe side, it may be taking Baloasr is the first, because it is the strongest evidence, or because it more appropriate to the spirit of the law, and the needs of people ..
- Said in the body of "enlightenment eyes" and explained, "Durr-Mukhtar" Who wrote the tap may be seen that the man from his wife to the back and hidden, even to her vagina, with or without desire ..
- Said in "Durr-Mukhtar" (and the first left him, because he inherited oblivion, and added others that it weakens the eyesight. Fllaha explanations are illegal, as it did not come the text of the Book or the Sunnah, which is rejected from the scientific point, there is no logical link is realistic cause and effect.
- And quoted in the "guidance" of the primacy of speech-Turk, "If one of you came Felicttr his family he could not Etjrdan Alaaran deprive" any Alhmarin ..
He said: Ibn Umar said: "I consider to be reported in the collection of pleasure."
- The scholar Ibn Abidin said: But in the "Explanation of guidance" for the eyes: this is not proven from Ibn 'Umar was false and a weak bond.
- He said, and Abu Yusuf: I asked Abu Hanifa for a man who touches his wife, and she touches his private parts, to move it, do you see anything wrong? He said: No, and I hope that the reward will be greater). (Footnote Radd on Durr al-Mukhtar 5 / 234).
- Perhaps it refers to the saheeh hadeeth: "In a few of you charity." They said: O Messenger of God, if one of us desire, and be rewarded? He said: "Yes, if not placed in the burden of it was forbidden, so if placed in the old will be rewarded. Othzbon evil, nor Thzbon good?!". Narrated by Muslim. God supposedly from Abu Hanifa was Avqha!.
- The talk, which was understood in the "guidance" does not excuse it, because it is weak. (Narrated by Ibn Majah in Marriage (1921) and weakness in Busayri appendages, and the weak Iraqi Hafiz also weak isnaads whole, as well as weakness in the Albanian "Irwa" interview, 2009).
- Even if we accept the symbol of indulgence Suyuti, who to talk to former Belhassen at the University of the many small ways, it does not benefit more than disliked Altensahah which subsides to a lower need.
- In a society like the U.S. and other Western societies, we find that their habits in the sexual intercourse between spouses, contrary to what we have come in our homelands, such as nudity during intercourse, or for a man to his wife's, or play women's mention of her husband and kiss him, and so on, which may lead them to What were its sexual Brod as a result of the spread of pornography and the degradation and nudity, which makes men and women may also need to unusual stimuli.
- These things may deny ourselves, and alienated from our hearts, our minds and Tstskhvha, but this is forbidden and the name of religion is another.
- Should not be said that something is haram, but there in the Qur'an and Sunnah, the text on the explicit denied him, otherwise, the basic principle is permissible.
- We do not find here the correct text explicitly indicative of the sanctity of this behavior with couples, and that's what made me in my visits to America, in the conference the Union of Muslim students, and visits to centers of Islam in a number of states, as was asked about it he often comes from the Muslim American that I tend to facilitation does not Altasir, and facilitation do not stress, do not leave the ban.
- Because of the hadeeth: "Save the nakedness only your wife and your right hand possesses" It's true .. Provisions of the consideration.
It says: (And those who guard their chastity except from their wives or (the slaves) that their they are not blameworthy). (Believers: 5.6).
- This view is the view, and stressed bearing down on those who goes against Imam Ibn Hazm, with no true text has prevented from doing so, but this did not find it any makrooh already .. He said the "local":
(And the old man to look at his wife's, his wife and his nation, which is permissible for him to have intercourse, as well as for them to see that the private parts, do not hate the original).
- The proof of that famous news by Aisha, Umm Salamah, the auspicious and Mothers of the Believers may Allah be pleased about them because they were washing with the Messenger of Allah - peace be upon him -, the bathroom of one vessel. (See Local 1 / 267 and 283 289).
- In the news auspicious statement that he (PBUH) was without the apron, because in the headline of that peace be upon him hand into the pot, then poured water over his private parts and wash it with his left hand (see the local 1 / 267 and 283 289), hero after that to turn to the opinion of a .
- It is strange that allows some of the pretenders from the people of ignorance intercourse vagina and prevents the consideration of it!! .. Suffice it to say that God (and those who guard their chastity. Only to their spouses or those whom their faith they are not blameworthy).
- Ordered the Almighty to save the vagina only to the wife, and the king of the right, there is no blame in that, and that the public in seeing, touching and mixing.
- And what we know of the abuse attached to only the impact of silly for an unidentified woman, a mother of believers: "What I saw Faraj Messenger of Allah - peace be upon him - never." Poor Ibn Hajar.
- The hadeeth quoted by Ibn Hazm in Sahih Al-Bukhari from Ibn Abbas auspicious Mother of the Faithful said: "started at the Prophet - peace be upon him - he washed the bathroom washing his hands, his right hand and then pour on the left, washing his private parts and injury ..." (Hadith No. (281) 1 / 387 of al Fath with Salafist i). Talk.
- And also true for Aisha said: "I used to bathe and the Prophet - peace be upon him - from one vessel of glass said to him: the difference". (See Hadith No. 250 of the previous source and limbs in: 261, 263 273 299, etc.).
- Al-Hafiz said in the "conquest" inference to talk to some scientists said it is permissible to consider a man to look his wife and vice versa .. Said:
(And supported by the report narrated by Ibn Hibbaan from Sulayman ibn Musa was asked about a man looking at his wife's, he said: I asked 'Ata', said: I asked Aisha, and she mentioned this modern sense, which in this matter. And God knows best). (Open 1 / 364).
- Which drew him to consider Islam not be all they spend Tora man is without any interest in his wife's feelings and desire.
- The sexual relationship between spouses is a threat and its impact on married life. May result in lack of interest, or is placed in a position to disturb this life, and her turmoil and misery.
- The accumulation of errors which lead to the destruction of marital life and bring them from the rules.
- And perhaps some people think that religion is neglected in this respect, despite their importance. - And perhaps others that religion is just the highest and purest that interfere in this respect, education and guidance, legislation or regulation, a look at some of the religions of sex "as dirty and falling animal."
- And the fact that Islam has not ignored this sensitive side of human life, and family life, and had the orders and prohibitions, both of which had the nature of the moral commandments, or was it the mandatory nature of the laws.
- The first thing decided by Islam in this aspect is to recognize Pftria sex drive and originality, and condemn the extremist trends that tend to confiscate it, or as dirty and polluted.
- This is preventing those who wanted to cut libido final Balachtsae of his companions and said, others wanted to retire and women leave the marriage, said peace be upon him: "I inform you in God and Okhchakm him, but I do and sleep, and fast and fast, and I marry women. Whoever turns away from my Sunnah is not from me." .
- And then decided to marry the right of each spouse to respond to this impulse, and wanted to sex work to the extent considered worship and drawing closer to God, as it says in the saheeh hadeeth said peace be upon him: "In a few of you (ie his private parts) charity. They said : O Messenger of God, if one of us desire and be rewarded? said: Yes. if not placed in the burden of it was forbidden. Also, if placed in the old will be rewarded, evil Othzbon Thzbon not good? ". Narrated by Muslim.
- But Islam took into account that the husband under the instinct and habit is a student of this area and women are required.
- And that most longing to it, and less patient about, unlike some of the common people that the woman's libido is stronger than man, the reality proved otherwise .. He was appointed as proven by Shara.
(A) and this has commanded the wife to respond to the husband if he calls her to bed, and behind him, as in the hadeeth: "If a man calls his wife to his need, Vltath albeit on the oven."
(B) and warned her to reject his application without an excuse, Viphet a disgruntled and which may be excessive in his desire and Hbakh, Vtdfh boost to defiant behavior or thinking about it, or anxiety and tension, at least, "If a man calls his wife to his bed, and she refuses to Tgi, there has been angry with her, the angels curse her until. "
- This is all what you do not have valid reasons of illness or tiredness, or impediment, or otherwise.
- The husband has to take into account, the God - the Creator of the subjects and Razkhm and Hadém - dropped them to his rights to the allowance or allowance is, when the excuse, For His slaves to follow the example in this.
(C) and the sequel to that forbade the fasting volunteer who is present without his permission, because his right is the first care of the reward Voluntary fasting, and he agreed to talk peace be upon him: "No woman should fast when her husband without his permission." What is meant by a voluntary fast by agreement as stated in another interview.
- And when Islam took into account the strength of a man's lust, not forgotten by the women, and their right to mildew in saturation as a female.
- That said, those who used to fast the day and the night of his companions such as Abdullah bin Amr: to your body that you really, even to your family (ie your wife) you really have.
- Imam al-Ghazali: "We should approach her in every four nights time, it is fairer, since the number of women of four (ie, the maximum permissible) opinion on this matter the delay to that limit. Yes, wanting to be increased or decreased according to their need for immunization. The vaccinated and is obligatory for him" .
- And which drew him to consider Islam not be all they spend Tora man is without any interest in his wife's feelings and desire.
- This is narrated in the modern temptation in the boot of sexual contact including Ahawk him by caressing and kissing and the like, so it is not just to meet a pure animal.
- Did not find the imams of Islam and Vgahaah Taosma bone or anything wrong with the alarm on this aspect that may be overlooked by some couples.
- This is the argument of Islam, the Imam of Fiqh and Sufism, Abu Hamid al-Ghazali mentions it in the resurrection - which was written to paint the way for the people of piety and piety, and who walk through paradise - some etiquette intercourse says: (is recommended to begin the name of God and prayer).
- Said peace be upon him: "If one of you when he comes to his family said: O Jnebena Satan, and Satan is razaqtana side.. If they have a child, did not affect him the devil."
- To cover himself and his family gown ... and offers gentle words and kissing. He said peace be upon him: "Do not fall on any one of his wife, as the animal is located, but not their messenger. It was said: The Prophet, O Messenger of God? Said: kiss and talk."
- And said: "Three of the deficit in the man .. and he mentioned that his wife about the man and taste (ie, intercourse) before the update and Aaanasseha and spends sleeping with his need of them before they need to spend it."
- The Al-Ghazali: (Then, if spent Tora Fletmhl his family until that is also Nhmtha, the landings may be delayed, Fahaj her desires, and then sitting by harming them. The difference in the printed landing requires dissonance no matter how the husband was previously to the landing, and compatibility at the time of landing the tastiest then not employed by the man himself, they may feel embarrassed).
- After-Ghazali, Imam find ancestral piety met Abu Abdullah bin values mentioned in the book "Zaad in the guidance of the best people" gift peace be upon him in sexual intercourse. Can not find it embarrassing to mention religious, and moral flaw, not a shortage socially, as you might understand some of the people of our time. It is his words:
- "The sexual intercourse and can afford the gift was completed Huda, preserves its health, its pleasure is pleasure and self, and gets him to put his purposes for it.
- The intercourse was originally set for three things, is the original purposes of: - one: Remember birth control, time and type to be integrated kit that, God forbid, they emerge into this world.
- Second: the output of water which harms Ahtbash and enjoying physical pleasure. - The third fulfillment of desire, and to get pleasure, and enjoyment of grace. This alone is the benefit in heaven.
- A: The benefits: lower your gaze, refraining from self, and the ability to chastity for man's land, and the collection of the woman, he is the same benefit, in this world and the Hereafter, and to benefit the women. Therefore, it was peace be upon him enjoy regular intimate relations with his wives, he says, dear to the world, women and good. "
- In the book of Imam Ahmad asceticism in this talk is a nice increase "patient from food, drink and be patient about them."
- He urged the nation's peace be upon him to marry her, he said: "I married Marry the .." He said: "O young people, whoever among you can afford to let him get married, it is lowering the gaze and guarding one's chastity ..", and when he got married Jaber Thebes told him: "Will you Tlaabk and manipulation of a virgin."
- Then he said Imam Ibn al-Qayyim: "It should be submitted to sexual intercourse foreplay woman and kissing her and sucking her tongue. The Messenger of Allah peace be upon him play with his wives, and accept it. And narrated by Abu Dawood:" that peace be upon him was accepted Aisha and suck her tongue "and states that Jaabir Bin Abdullah said: "Messenger of God peace be upon him for intercourse before foreplay."
- All this shows us that the scholars of Islam have not been "reactionaries" and "Ultra-Orthodox" in addressing these issues, but they were words of our time "progressives" and realistic.
* The bottom line: that Islam is meant organization of sexuality between the couple, was not neglected even if the Qur'an mentioned in two places of the Sura, which meant the affairs of the family:
- One: during the verses on fasting and related Almighty says: (lawful to you the night of fasting, sexual relations with your wives, they dress you, and you dress them, the knowledge of God that you deceive yourselves, pardoned you and forgive you, offspring, and seek what Allah has decreed for you, and eat and drink until the white thread appears to you from the black thread of dawn, then complete the fast until night, and Tpashrōhn and you are working in the mosques, the limits of God is not Tqrbuha).
- There is no beautiful and told not believe the expression of the relationship between the couple says: (are to dress as you dress them) all that had been an expression "dress" of the meanings of covering and protection, warmth and adjacent, adornment and beauty.
- The second verse: (And they ask you about menstruation, the injury is less interpretation of the menstrual Tqrboehn not even a bath, if Ttehrn Votohn as commanded of God, that God loves those who repent and loves those who purify themselves, Your wives are a tilth for you, so they brought tilth when or how I am if you like, and made for yourselves, and fear Allah and know that you Mlaqoh, and preached the believers).
- Came hadith explain to retire in the first verse that avoiding intercourse only, without everything else from the kiss and the hugging and direct and similar colors to enjoy, and explain the meaning (I am if you like) that is meant to any situation or how you have chosen as long as the subject of plowing, the kisses She also noted verse. There is no attention to this matter more than intent to mention in the constitution of Islam is the Koran.
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