My wife's mother "bug"

 My problem is that my wife's mother "bug" in the sense the word (poke her nose in every nook and cranny in our marital life) .. Unlike my wife .. But the mother have an impact on the girl in some things, mother love all new and decorated and I am my financial situation normal, and my wife is very sensitive and get upset not to meet the demands of her mother, especially as her only daughter among seven children, and that the mother herself suffering from high blood pressure, diabetes and any emotion affects them.
Sometimes I think the transition to a neighboring region The area of my work allows me to do so that I can build my life on the basis of clear and without external intervention, with the knowledge that I have been married for two months then I hope the problems of interest and the reference to the opinion of good and thank you.
A: Because your wife a modern era of marriage they are still associated with her ​​mother's relations before marriage; and therefore provide obedience to her mother on the obedience and opinion on your opinion, and thus does not know what should be the woman with her ​​husband from obedience to good and to provide for his needs and his opinion on the need for her mother or her father. Here comes your turn you pair Manasahtha and education rights of the husband to his wife, and describes its implications on the interference of her mother in every nook and cranny in your life family, especially if some of their views conflicted with your financial or retirement system .. Even aware of your wife these things and adapt with it needs you to the patience and care, and good ten even stronger bonds of love and intimacy between you, love is one of the biggest reasons of obedience and follow-up, then I advise you to be firm with your wife and her mother or others; if conflicted views with Islam, there is no obedience to any creature in the disobedience to the Creator, and be wise with them in the issues that are contrary to your opinion but do not run is legitimate, try to convince your wife to drop by and let you and including the "ball rolling" as they say, and the extent of interest and the negative consequences on your particular situation in each case, then it must be estimated Ashfaq this mother on her only daughter and hang out, and to know that its interference in your life but it is the excess of love and compassion towards her daughter; and therefore can not be to some extent on this side, and should Tnasahha by your spouse, even if that reduces the interference in your life marriage. With regard to housing, I advise you asking for guidance and then see what settles the case at yourself note that the phone has made ​​in the run soon, and it is difficult for the mother to pick up the phone to show her daughter what she wants of opinions and guidance, and may Allaah guide you to what he loves and which pleases Him and gather you together on the good.
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